Well the main motivator? Feminism. At this age women strongly strive for equality. They live with the adage, “What men can do women can do better”, or so they say. A number of women now do men’s jobs – firewomen, policewomen, etc., because women want to stand in line with men. Sad thing is most men conceive this poorly. One simple example, a girl standing in a bus and a man having a seat. Most men now won’t offer a seat to a girl standing. Why? Because they think that women want equality meaning women standing on a bus like men do. It’s purely primitive thinking.
Second motivator – Lack of appreciation. Some women now are just taking things for granted. When a guy does a kind act on you, say thank you, okay?! Most men feel degraded when they’ve done something good and women simply ignore it and in result he’ll be afraid to do that again. And to men who were witness to such kind but unappreciated act, it unconsciously scars their subconscious mind that doing a kind act doesn’t end well making them not do a kind act ever again.
Third motivator – Weak men. Even if some women ignore your chivalrous act, please don’t stop doing it. Just because your kind act had a blunt reaction by and ignorant woman doesn’t mean they’re all the same. Be optimistic, maybe she’s just having a bad day. Maybe her mind is clouded by problems one kind act cannot diminish. Or maybe she’s just plainly ignorant. No matter what reason women give, men, we have one big reason why we must keep chivalry alive – it’s the essence that makes us true men. So if you’re not chivalrous, maybe you belong to the other side.
Everything read was just a product of a gentleman’s thought. Any contradiction to your belief towards the topic is normal so keep calm and keep chivalry alive